Integrating People Pleasing Into Radical Authenticity.
Discussion of Untapped Potential
The 3rd Wednesday of every month, Karen Betten is a guest host on the
The Truth is Funny…Shift Happens with Colette Stefan Radio Show
Meet my guest Anne Marie McQuaid, founder/owner of Playing on Purpose.
Join Anne Marie McQuaid and I as we explore the insidious need to “please others” as an unrecognized pattern of destruction in the journey to express one’s authentic true nature. Motherhood often brings this experience to a charged explosion.
As a mother, I’ve been playing with how many of my actions often feel to fall in the category of “people pleasing”.
I have teenagers, a husband, an early adolescent, parents, brothers, a dog, a cat, clients, students, teachers, mentors and more in my life.
On any given day I can see them all as “needing” things, words or actions from me. Somedays it is not a problem. Other days it can be overwhelming and zap my energy.
On those days I hear the brilliant words of Tom Kenyon: I don’t know if you know, but ” No” is a complete sentence.
Take a moment and let that sink in. How much energy would that save in a day if mothers ( really everyone) could just say no and be done.
Despite this awareness I often find myself building relentless rationalizations for why I cannot meet the perceived needs of someone I love or even just know.
If left unprocessed, this can express itself in a sudden outburst of frustration, yelling, and/or blame toward the people I love most. That then can lead down a path of feeling guilt; guilt of the most energy zapping form.
It can be quite frustrating to juggle the modern day demands of mothering (or any life for that matter) with the whisperings & calling of our desires, dreams, talents, gifts, explorations and/or expressions.
Are you desiring to engage more of your actions/ reactions from a place of Radical Authenticity?
Anne Marie McQuaid has a Bachelor’s degree in Speech Pathology and Audiology, and a Master’s degree in Special Education. She has 25 years of experience working with children and young adults of all ages and abilities. Anne Marie is also an energy- healing practitioner utilizing modalities such as Reiki and Bodytalk. She has three children of her own; ages 18, 14, and 12. Email her AnneMarie@PlayingonPurpose.com